Yes, We’re Going There: Let’s Talk About Genitals in Naturism

We didn’t expect our article about “liking boobs” to stir up quite so many feelings, or private messages, but apparently, the world needed a little real talk about breasts. Fair enough.

But now we’ve reached that awkward, inevitable next step: the downstairs department.

Yes. Lets talk about Genitals in Naturism.

Penises and vulvas.

The bits that even naturists don’t always know how to talk about without suddenly needing a snack or pretending they got a text.

But here’s the thing: they’re not a taboo in naturism. They’re just there. And if you’re going to spend time in a place where clothes aren’t involved, you’re going to see them. So let’s talk about it honestly, with some respect… and a few laughs.

Because, frankly, genitals are funny looking.

The Genital Gap: One Hangs, One Hides

Let’s start with the obvious. Penises and vulvas may both be genitals, but they sure don’t show up to the party the same way.

Men? Well, there it is. No matter what size, shape, or angle, it’s just… present. Dangling like it’s waiting for applause. There’s no subtle version of a penis. It’s kind of like a garden hose that forgot what it was supposed to be doing.

Meanwhile, women like Corin are over here crossing their legs, tucking towels, or strategically placing a book over their lap. And not to read it.

It’s not shame. It’s just that being that visible feels weird to her when society’s been yelling “close your legs!” since kindergarten.

Even in naturist settings, there’s a subtle pressure for women to keep things tucked, folded, or generally modest.

While men lounge like it’s happy hour at the breeze bar.

Genitals: Not Quite Fan Favorites

Here’s where we get brutally honest.

Genitals? They just don’t inspire the same cultural adoration as boobs.

Once you’ve seen a few dozen genitals, you’re kind of good. They stop being mysterious and start being… oddly utilitarian.

Like, “Oh yep, there’s another one. Neat. Moving on.”

But breasts? For whatever reason, you could see a hundred, and still find yourself thinking, Hmm. Wonder what that next pair looks like.

They’re like snowflakes… unique, inviting, and somehow endlessly fascinating.

Penises and vulvas, meanwhile, are more like IKEA parts: necessary, functional, sometimes hard to identify without a manual, and not something you show off in the living room.

Erections Happen (Don’t Make It Weird)

We have written about this before in A Naturist’s Guide to One of Men’s Most Common (and Overblown) Fears.

Look… we’re adults. Erections happen. Usually not because someone’s aroused. Sometimes it’s nerves, a breeze, a memory about a juicy burger… bodies are weird, and we aren’t that complicated.

But ethical naturism has an unspoken rulebook: If things start pointing north, you politely roll over, grab a towel, or take a little walk of reflection. No one needs to salute the sun. This isn’t a sundial contest.

Most guys get this. And if they don’t, they learn quickly… or they’re shown the door.

There’s a big difference between being nude and being inappropriate. Naturism makes you more aware of your behavior, not less. It’s not about suppressing biology; it’s about knowing when to take it offline.

Vulvas: Mysterious, Misunderstood, and Frequently Judged

Vulvas, unlike penises, don’t just hang out. They tend to be more subtle, more complex, and somehow more controversial.

Why? Because society’s expectations are ridiculous.

There’s pressure to be smooth but not too smooth. Tidy, but “natural.” Discreet, but symmetrical. And god forbid your labia show up in public looking like… well, labia. Vulvas get less air time, and when they do show up, it’s often in ridiculous, idealized form. That makes a lot of women nervous. Am I normal? Am I too visible? Is there a required grooming policy I didn’t know about?

But in naturism, you start to see what real looks like.

Spoiler alert: it doesn’t look like porn. It looks like people.

And that can be incredibly healing once women get past the part where they’re expected to fold themselves into a napkin just to avoid judgment.

Corin puts it perfectly… “Men let it all hang out, and we’re over here folding our legs like origami trying not to look too open for business.”

And she’s not wrong. If a woman sits with her knees apart in the same casual way a man does, eyebrows go up. Whispers start. Society short-circuits. “She’s sitting like a man!”

No. She’s sitting like someone with legs and a spine who didn’t want to cramp up.

Let women sit how they want. It’s a body, not a billboard.

Not the Center of Attention (Anymore)

Let’s be honest. We all look.

At first, anyway.

You step into a naturist space for the first time and BOOM! It’s like walking onto another planet. The rules are different. The outfits are missing. And suddenly, there are penises and vulvas just… existing in the wild. Not in a magazine. Not in a browser tab. But attached to real people buying smoothies, playing pétanque, and reading books.

And yes… you compare. We did. You probably will too.

You look around and ask yourself quietly, “Is mine okay?”,“Is that what they usually look like?”,“Do other people have that same flap, fold, freckle… or unexpected hanging direction?”

And here’s the beautiful part. This is where the healing starts.

Because you start to see just how real real is.

This isn’t airbrushed, curated, filtered nudity. This isn’t gym-lighting, fake tan, perfectly waxed, porn-industry nudity. This is human nudity. And in its honest variety… the bumps, the sagging, the asymmetries, the scars… you start to feel something unexpected. Relief!

You’re not broken. You’re not the odd one out. You’re just like everyone else. Delightfully imperfect!

And once the novelty wears off, the comparisons stop. Genitals, breasts, bellies, body hair. All of it starts to fade into the background. Not because you’ve gone blind to it, but because your brain finally stops screaming “OH GOD LOOK” every time someone walks by.

Eventually, genitals just aren’t interesting anymore. They’re not the main characters in the story. They’re just… background characters. Like elbows. Or feet. OK… maybe not boobs!

You start to notice and remember people by their kindness, their energy, their jokes, the way they handed you a drink on a hot day. Not by the shape of their bits.

And that, honestly, is one of the best parts of naturism… realizing how little your “private parts” actually matter when no one is trying to turn them into a performance.

Because once you’ve seen a whole campground of genitals, you stop wondering who has the best one. You start wondering why we ever gave them so much power in the first place.

“Comparison is human. Obsession is learned. Naturism helps you unlearn it.”

You start seeing people instead. Their posture. Their energy. Their laugh. Their really questionable hat choices.

It’s beautifully boring.

The Funny Little Moments

Naturism isn’t just body acceptance and deep philosophical realizations under the sun. It’s also a comedy show. And your body is both the main character and the punchline.

Because the truth is… being naked is weird sometimes. Not bad, just funny. And if you can’t laugh about it, you’re going to miss half the joy.

Let’s start with accidental eye contact. Not face-to-face… no, we mean you were making conversation, and then boom: one foot goes up on a bench, and now you’re at unintended scrotum height. You try to stay cool, but your brain goes:“Don’t look down. Don’t look down. Oh no. You looked down.”

Also… when talking to newcomers who are clearly trying not to look at your bits while also desperately trying not to look like they’re trying not to look at your bits. Their eyes bounce around your face like they’re trapped in a pinball machine.

And don’t forget the sit-down surprise. Ever plop down on a lawn chair a little too quickly and instantly regret forgetting how cold (or hot) plastic feels? Or worse, that moment where you realize the chair has those gaps. Those unforgiving slats where your balls fall through looking like a gym speed bag. Those chairs that leave behind a grid pattern of your dignity?

And yet… it’s all okay.

Because everyone’s been there. Everyone has a story. And everyone learns very quickly that the best naturist moments aren’t when you’re posing like the statue of David. They’re when you’re laughing, awkwardly, in a moment that only a fellow nudie could understand.

These funny little moments are naturism. They’re the bridge between awkward and awesome. The reason so many people fall in love with the life like we did.

Because once you stop taking nudity so seriously, you start taking life a little less seriously, too.

And honestly, once you’ve made it through an entire pool party while trying to keep your junk off a hot vinyl lounger, you’ve earned the right to laugh. Loudly. And naked.

These moments happen. They’re funny. And part of naturism is learning to laugh about the weirdness of being human.

Who’s Looking at What (and Why)?

Here’s where it gets interesting. Men and women don’t always look at the same things… or for the same reasons.

Men, generally speaking, are more visually wired. It’s not a flaw, it’s just biology (and a lifetime of being handed beer commercials with cleavage).

Yes, men look at women but they also look at men. They always have. But in naturism, what they’re looking at changes pretty quickly.

Let’s start with other men’s penises because we all know it happens. It’s not talked about much, but most guys have had at least one quiet moment of: “Okay… so that’s how I measure up?” It’s not competition (okay, sometimes it is). But more often, it’s about making peace with your own body by seeing the honest range of what’s out there. In porn, everyone looks like they were cast for a very specific job involving suspension bridges and tripod jokes.

But in naturism? There’s variety. Shape, size, hang, direction, scars, grooming (or lack of it). It’s oddly comforting. And yes… we have all had the “HOLY SHIT!” moment when you see that one dude. Every club or beach has one. The guy whose genitals has its own gravitational pull. He’s not doing anything wrong, but your brain still whispers, “Okay… good for you, Sir Loin of Beef.”

We already discussed boobs in our previous article. But then there’s the part no one ever says out loud. Men also look at vulvas. We want to see them.

Not in a leering way, at least not in ethical naturism, but with curiosity. Because let’s face it… many men haven’t seen a lot of real, relaxed, un-posed vulvas and labia in natural light. No filters. No sexual framing. Just… a person, sitting on a towel, existing.

For some guys, that’s quietly mind-blowing. Because the version of female anatomy they’ve been shown is usually one very narrow, curated, edited version. So they look.

Not because they’re objectifying, but because they’re realizing: “Oh. That’s what real looks like.”

Women, on the other hand? Their mind is thinking “Beige… I think we should paint the house beige!”

More often, women look at other women… but not sexually. In both naturist and textile environments, women report more body comparison behavior. They’re scanning the room for reassurance. It’s not for competition. Breast size and shape. Pubic hair grooming. Visible labia. Skin tone and texture. Weight, curves, posture, and confidence. They’re asking: “Am I okay?” “She looks like me… and she’s not hiding. Maybe I don’t need to either.”

And when women see the stretch marks, the soft skin, the labia that aren’t airbrushed… it’s powerful.

Women are often taught to judge their bodies through the lens of perfection, not curiosity. So when you’re suddenly surrounded by real bodies, not posed or edited, you start to recalibrate. It’s realizing you’ve been comparing yourself to fantasy, and now you’re finally seeing reality.

So… we are sorry to burst your bubble guys, but most women don’t usually stare at penises like men stare at boobs. They’re too busy figuring out how to finally stop judging their own bodies.

Sure, we’ve heard women say they’ve noticed penises. Usually with phrases like “Huh,” or “Well, that’s different.” But it’s rarely with the same fascination or attraction that men often have toward breasts.

Women might glance at men’s genitals out of curiosity or for novelty, especially in naturist settings, but the stronger instinct tends to be comparing themselves to other women, not caring much about men.

Men are just not that fascinating! Penises are not exactly aesthetic masterpieces. They’re more like functional equipment (some semi-functional) that someone accidentally left outside.

But here’s the thing about both men and women… they get used to it, fast. Because unlike the internet, where everyone looks like they’ve been 3D printed and professionally oiled, naturist spaces show you the full range of real bodies. And when we see that… the softness, the stretch marks, the labia that aren’t folded into invisibility, the brain shifts. From curious to casual. From fixated to familiar.

Not because they stop noticing but because once you’re around people who aren’t performing, the urge to watch goes away. You stop viewing bodies like search results. You start treating them like furniture… interesting for a second, and then mostly just… there.

(Of course, all of the above varies based on individual sexuality… just like everything human.)

Final Thoughts from Below the Belt

In the end, genitals are just another part of the whole. They don’t need to be focused on, hidden, worshipped, avoided, or dissected.

They’re just… there.

And once we stop overthinking them, judging them, or pretending they hold all the power in a room, we get to experience something better… real connection, full-body acceptance, and the joy of not giving a damn whether your labia are visible when you sit cross-legged at the picnic table.

So yes, we went there. We had to. And we’re glad we did.

Because talking about this stuff with honesty and humor is part of building naturist spaces that actually feel natural.

And if nothing else, maybe someone will finally let Corin sit comfortably.

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