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Let’s Talk About Boobs (Yes, We Like Them… And That’s Okay!)

Body Acceptance And Attraction

Body Acceptance And Attraction. A smiling woman with shoulder-length hair sits nude on a couch, showcasing a natural and relaxed expression, with a softly lit background.

Alright, let’s just say it upfront and get it over with. We like boobs. Despite all the years of “deprogramming,” we still enjoy seeing boobs. Maybe me more than Corin but she enjoys them as well.

There it is. Out loud. No shame. No apologies.

We like them in the way people like sunny days, road trips, or finding out there’s still ice cream in the freezer. They just… bring us a little bit of joy.

Not in a weird, creepy, internet comment section kinda way.

Not in a “snicker like a middle-schooler” way (though we’ll admit to occasional giggling).

We’re just being honest here. And isn’t that what naturism is all about anyway? Honesty? Authenticity? No hiding?

“They’re Just Body Parts!” (True… But Also, Yeah, We Notice.)

Naturists and nudists love to repeat this line… They’re just body parts.

And yes, they are! Boobs are no more mystical than elbows or kneecaps. In fact, they’re downright practical for many people. They can feed babies, get in the way during yoga, or serve as handy shelf space for holding snacks on the couch.

But here’s the honest part. Just because something’s normal doesn’t mean we don’t notice it.

It’s not about some outdated idea of “attractiveness.” It’s more like… “Huh. There they are.”

Not in that oogling from behind sunglasses kind of way. More like… “Oh. Boobs. Nice.” Smile. Move on. It’s like spotting a cool bird at the park. Interesting, but you don’t chase it around with binoculars.

It’s not about judging. It’s not about comparing. It’s simply about noticing what’s always been hidden and realizing it’s really no big deal… but also kind of amusing that it used to feel like such a big deal.

Naturism teaches us something odd. When you stop obsessing over what’s hidden, you stop obsessing altogether.

Why Boobs Seem Special (Hint: It’s Not About the Boobs)

We’ve thought about this far too much (probably while sitting around naked having drinks, because that’s when all the deep thoughts happen).

Why do boobs seem to have this strange cultural power?

Honestly? It’s not the boobs themselves. It’s what society taught us to believe about them.

For most of our lives, we heard “Cover those up!”, “That’s inappropriate!”, “You can’t show those here!”, “Think of the children!” (Even when we were the children)

Boobs were treated like a top-secret, government-classified body part, hidden, censored, forbidden. They were built up as mysterious, scandalous, somehow dangerous.

Then we discovered naturism. And suddenly… there they were.

On the beach. In the hot tub. Walking by, casually chatting about gardening or taxes or what’s for lunch.

And guess what?

Nothing happened. No bolts of lightning. No fainting bystanders. It just… was.

It’s hard not to chuckle a little when you realize all that fuss was about something half the population carries around daily, tucked under a T-shirt.

Confession Time: We Still Like Seeing Them (And That’s Okay)

Here’s where it gets funny: even after all the unlearning, we still enjoy seeing boobs.

We’ve seen every variety. Freckled, tanned, pale, tattooed, post-surgery, mastectomy scars, augmented, reduced, asymmetrical, gravity-defying, gravity-accepting, or pointing wherever they darn well please.

And we love that.

Not because we’re judging or ranking anything. But because it reminds us how amazing it is that bodies come in so many forms, and none of it has to be hidden anymore.

The Best Part? No Shame Allowed

Here’s what we’ve learned through naturism… boobs aren’t inherently sexual. They aren’t shameful. They aren’t forbidden.

They’re just… there! Sometimes comical, sometimes tender, sometimes simply… part of the scenery.

And honestly, we find it beautiful. Not in a “look how perfect that is” kind of way. But in a “look how real, normal, and human this is” kind of way.

We’re not supposed to pretend we don’t notice bodies. We’re just supposed to notice without judgment. Without turning it into a competition or a spectacle. Everyone deserves to feel welcome in their skin: Whether they have big boobs, small boobs, one boob, no boobs, or something entirely unexpected. Whether they’ve had surgery, scars, or nothing at all.

That’s the beauty we see in naturism. Not some polished beauty, but the honesty of being real. Even if they are not!

Our Honest Takeaway: Yes, We Like Boobs. But People Matter More.

We’re naturists, and we’ll always advocate for body respect and dignity. But we also believe it’s perfectly okay to admit we like boobs. Because we do!

But it’s the people that count. We love the stories they carry, the laughter they share, the energy they bring into naturist spaces. Boobs are just along for the ride (sometimes bouncing along, depending on the terrain).

Naturism doesn’t require us to be robotic monks who pretend we don’t notice anyone. It asks us to respect people, no matter what shape their body takes.

And frankly, it’s pretty freeing to admit. Yes, we like boobs. And that doesn’t make us creepy. It makes us human. It’s a reminder that bodies are wonderfully weird and wildly different.

And here’s the truth. We don’t need to hide the fact that we enjoy seeing bodies, including boobs, without turning it into something creepy or shallow.

Even more than that, we love the comfort, humor, and honesty that comes with being around people who’ve ditched the shame and embraced themselves fully. Scars, stretch marks, sunburns, and all.

We came for body freedom. We stayed for the comfort, the honesty, and, yeah, we’re not gonna lie… the boobs didn’t hurt either.


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  1. So I openly admit that I like looking at-NOT staring, at women and their boobs when I am at a nude beach.
    But I am for sure not reducing that women to their bodies,
    I appreciate the atmosphere where women (but also men) drop their bathing suit and enjoy it themselves.

  2. Thank you, Kevin for this fascinating discussion on two interesting and so often misunderstood parts of the female human anatomy .
    Joke: What do you call 2 guys strolling on either side of a tit, hand in hand? Two boobs walking abreast😂 Jan’s joke btw.
    Jan & Gary😊

  3. You are absolutely right and thanks for the light hearted perspective. Boobs are nice even with scars, moles, tattoos, or different shapes. About the scars, I heard someone say, and I agree, that scars are like tattoos but only with better stories.

  4. Superb article again. I too like boobs but as part of the entire person not just the boobs. Great to see people happy with their bodies that they feel able to be nude, whether they are male or female.

  5. spot on. We are hardwired to enjoy seeing bodies. Unfortunately, the Victorian era began the demonization of the body and now marketers have twisted this inherent trait in to someone else. Just as I can appreciate an exotic car while minding and going about my own business, I can appreciate a woman’s beauty without bothering her or disrespecting my marriage.

    In naturist settings we’ve set a double standard about body parts and have tried to suppress our inherent nature. Erect nipples on breast are ok, an erect penis is not. Now in over a decade of visiting naturist resorts I’ve not had that problem. But if did I’d have to cover up, hide, jump in the pool. The rules forbid a bodily function instead of the person’s behavior. Falling asleep on a lounge chair and becoming erect in your sleep is harmless, walking around the pool flaunting an erection is something entirely different. This is a prominent fear of so many newcomers and those on the fence. I think in terms of body acceptance and acceptance of human nature we should acknowledge we enjoy the sight of bodies and bodies function a certain way and there’s no harm in that alone.


  6. Let’s face reality, no matter how many we see, both men and women are always fascinated by them. Let’s just enjoy and move on.

    Ms. K

  7. “It’s like spotting a cool bird at the park. Interesting, but you don’t chase it around with binoculars.”

    My wife and I are bird photographers and believe me, we will chase an interesting bird around the park or forest with binoculars AND a camera! However, we leave both in the car when we’re around other nude humans at the nude beach or resort. Beyond that, after nine years of marriage, and I’m now in my mid-70s, I still find her boobs fun to look at. I’m still not bored with them but there’s a time and a place for obvious attention.

  8. The fact that people like books so much has made them the “gateway drug” to pornography. I maintain that if women had started going topfree back on the 1930s when men shed their shirts at the beach no one today would know who Hugh Hefner was and pornography would not be a billion dollar “industry”. It is such a pity that keeping women as second class citizens by denying them the same top freedom that men enjoy has also lead to such a screwed up society. To quote Oscar Wilde “the commonest thing becomes exciting when one but hides it”. It doesn’t hurt that this common thing is also quite pleasant to look at.

    I enjoyed your light hearted look at one beautiful part of God’s greatest creation.

    Gregg

    1. And this is exactly why clothes are the cause of so much sexual dysfunction in our society!

  9. I must be weird! To be totally honest, I have never understood the fascination with boobs! I remember when I started work in my late teens, driving through city streets in a work vehicle with other workmates, and one will notice a woman walking along the footpath and remark to the rest of us, “Hey! Check out those boobs!” – and I’m like, “So what?” They have never held, for me, any form of thrill, excitement or pleasure, sexual or otherwise, than any other body part. I just don’t get it!

    Maybe it’s because I grew up from childhood in an environment where nudity was nothing remarkeable. Or maybe it’s because I grew up on a dairy farm where “boobs” on another species were our source of income! I don’t know. Boobs are boobs – there to nurture offspring. I don’t know of any other purpose.

  10. And this is exactly why clothes are the cause of so much sexual dysfunction in our society!

  11. Thanks for this article. It is very freeing to me as a new naturist. I can relax it mixed company.

  12. “It’s like spotting a cool bird at the park.”

    Like a nice pair of tits? Sorry, I couldn’t resist, the joke writes itself, LOL.

  13. “Naturism teaches us something odd. When you stop obsessing over what’s hidden, you stop obsessing altogether.”

    Love this ❤️

  14. I enjoyed reading this. I do like boobs, all the different sizes, including stretch marks and the variety of nipples. I enjoy the human body, women and men.

  15. An excellent article, as are all the others I’ve read. Honesty is to be commended because it drives away all the ridiculous nudge nudge ideas.

  16. Well I was going to count how many times you said the word “boobs” but that would just be a bit silly now wouldn’t it.

  17. Thanks for another awesome post with a few chuckles included. I feel this is a good time for me to make a confession. Corin’s are spectacular. 🤓

    1. Thanks for this comment. I also was struck by Corin’s beautiful boobs. But more to my liking of the way for nudist to live, she is a smooth nudist which uncovers all the rest of her beauty. Smooth is definately the way to live nude. Many thanks to alll who do that.

      1. I’m sure that jeffr85392 paid Corin this complement in the nicest way with sincere intent. However, it supports my view that the claim of naturism that it’s non-judgmental and that naturists do not judge or appraise other people’s bodies is utter nonsense!

        Of course we all look at another person, and – sure – we don’t criticise out loud the way they look, but we subconsciously judge their body all the same.

        And complimenting another person for the way their body looks is no different – it is still judgement. By saying that a particular woman’s boobs are spectacular, we are inferring that other women’s boobs don’t come up to that standard of beauty. It makes a mockery of the popular naturist mantra that “All bodies are beautiful!”

    2. jeffr85392 – you misunderstood me. I am not criticising you or your compliment to Corin. I was criticising the way that the naturist community claims that it doesn’t judge people’s bodies, when clearly it does. To say that we don’t mentally appraise another person’s body – either negatively or positively – is a lie. We all do it – it’s human nature!

      1. You will be interested that we have a whole 2 part series on “judgement” coming soon. So many articles written… but we don’t want to overwhelm everyone.

  18. “And though there are millions of people who’ll accept the cultural bar where you have it at,

    There are plenty of others who are perfectly willing to see breasts in their natural habitat.” 😁

    –Amanda Palmer, “Dear Daily Mail”

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