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Genital Phots Aren't Naturism. A couple sitting together on a wooden deck, both nude, with their backs facing the camera. They are holding hands and surrounded by lush greenery.

Not one naturist or nudist who actually understands the philosophy joined this lifestyle just to gawk at your bits. Not a single one.

Sure, there are always those who completely miss the point and show up for all the wrong reasons thinking naturism is some sort of backstage pass to a flesh parade. They exist. We’ve all seen them. And frankly, they don’t stick around long once they realize they’re in the wrong place.

And yes, let’s be honest… we’re all human. In naturist spaces, people will look. It’s basic human curiosity. You notice. You move on. No one’s pulling out a magnifying glass here. It’s a glance, not a quest for hidden treasure.

Here’s the thing: Naturism isn’t an anatomical scavenger hunt.

Close-up shots of your genitals? That’s not body acceptance. That’s a peep show with a filter. If your photo looks like it belongs in a medical journal or a lecture on human anatomy, it’s not naturism.

It’s a Public Service Announcement for better camera restraint.

Why Your Genital Photos Aren’t Naturism (And Never Will Be)

Let’s take a moment to address the thrilling world of close-ups.

You know the ones.

Women’s vulvas photographed so close we could practically check for cavities.

Men’s genitals zoomed in so tight we can count every last regret.

And yes… even buttholes. Because nothing screams “body positivity” quite like a high-definition shot of your personal launch pad.

Now that we’ve cleared that awkward fog, gentlemen… let’s have a chat. A real heart-to-heart. Specifically, about a certain misunderstanding. One that’s either laying limp next to your coffee cup or standing proudly in far too many corners of the online naturist world.

Yes. We’re talking about those photos.

The unsolicited, uninvited, up-close-and-way-too-personal shots of your genitals.

And yes, we’ve all seen them. You know, the ones where you’re technically posting a scenic beach landscape, but somehow your penis just happens to photobomb in the corner. As if we wouldn’t know you were naked without it.

Let me save you some time and a lot of embarrassment. These images are not naturism. Not nudism. Not body positivity.

They’re just a cringe-inducing cry for attention.

When Genitals Become the Focal Point: The Problem with “Look at Me” Nudism

Here’s an issue we see over and over… especially in the wild west of loosely moderated online spaces: The endless parade of close-up male genital photos posted under the banners of “nudism” or “naturism.”

These aren’t the casual, unposed, everyday moments of nude living we all appreciate. Nope. These are hyper-focused, staged photos where the genitals are unmistakably the star of the show.

And they all carry the same unspoken message: “See? I’m a nudist… look at it! TA-DA!”

Let’s not dance around it. This isn’t naturism. Not even close.

This is exhibitionism wearing a cheap disguise.

Some men seem to honestly believe that unless they wedge their penis front-and-center in every photo, no one will believe they’re actually nude.

But guess what? That’s not how naturism works.

Real naturism is about presence. Freedom. Self-acceptance. Not performance.

You don’t need to prove you’re nude. You don’t need a photo to validate it. And no, your genitals are not your membership card.

Frankly, most genuine naturists online aren’t interested in these images. In fact, they’re exactly why so many people, especially women and newcomers, don’t feel safe or welcome in digital naturist spaces.

They’re also why so many of us end up playing Whac-A-Mole with the block button.

Worse, these images just feed the tired old stereotype that naturism is just men looking for an excuse to expose themselves.

So… why does it keep happening?

Sometimes it’s just ignorance. Some guys simply don’t know the difference between being nude and performing nudity. But more often than not, it’s intentional. They’re chasing attention. They want validation. And when they get likes or engagement, even from non-naturists, it reinforces the behavior. It becomes a feedback loop of awkwardness.

But here’s the truth naturists know: Naturism isn’t about genitals. A healthy naturist space is one where every part of the body, including the genitals, is present but not the focus. What actually matters is how we live in our skin, how we treat others with respect, and how we share space without turning it into a stage.

So next time you’re scrolling through a so-called naturist feed, and it starts to feel more like a locker room show-and-tell… trust your gut.

That’s not naturism. That’s something else entirely… just wearing a stolen name tag.

Erections vs. Naturism: An Important Distinction

Now, let’s talk about another… ahem.. rising issue: Erection photos.

Yes, erections are natural. Absolutely. No argument there.

They’re a normal part of human biology. We’re not here to shame anyone for having one. It happens. We get it.

But let’s be clear: The moment you grab your phone or camera and think,“Wow, this magical moment simply must be documented and shared with the world,” you’ve officially stepped out of the realm of natural and straight into exhibitionism.

That’s not authenticity. That’s performance.

You don’t accidentally photograph your own erection. That’s not how cameras, or common sense, work. You made a conscious choice to capture that moment.

That’s not body acceptance. That’s showing off.

Look at it this way: Sneezes are natural, too. But if you took a selfie every single time you sneezed and posted it online, we’d all start questioning your grip on normal social behavior.

Claiming that “it’s natural, so it must be shared publicly” is logic so broken, it would trip over its own shoelaces.

Same goes for a long list of other natural body functions .We all do them. We don’t need photos.

Here’s the truth: Naturism is about body acceptance, not body advertisement. It’s about freedom, honesty, and non-sexual connection with ourselves and others. It’s about sunshine on your skin, grass under your feet, and the beautiful absence of clothing.

It is not about who can wave their flagpole the highest.

Here’s another way to think of it: Erections in naturism are like rain at a picnic. Sure, it happens. It’s not ideal. Nobody’s cheering for it.

An erection, whether voluntary or not, is a private experience.

This goes for both online and in social spaces.

If you’re in a naturist setting and you find yourself with an erection, here’s the simple, respectful solution: Sit down. Cover up. Wait it out quietly. No one’s going to chastise you for handling it discreetly.

But they will have a problem if you’re standing around proudly trying to hang your towel from it.

But What About Those Who Want To See It? Hint: (Not Naturists)

Yes, there are people out there who want to see those explicit photos.

That’s fine. Truly. There are plenty of spaces online built exactly for that.

We’re not prudes here. We’re naturists. Big difference.

If you want to showcase your anatomy for admiration, there are whole platforms designed just for that. Go for it. Post away. Have fun.

But naturist and nudist circles?

Those aren’t the places for it.

Naturism is a philosophy.
It’s a lifestyle.
It’s a community built on mutual respect.

Not some poorly disguised adult entertainment club with better lighting.

Your Penis Is Not Your Personality

Let’s say it louder for the people in the back: Your penis is not your personality.

It doesn’t define your character, your masculinity, or your worth as a human being.

And yet, far too often in certain “nudist” circles online (especially those overrun by male users), there’s this strange, stubborn belief that the penis somehow represents who you are.

Bigger means better. Harder means stronger. More visible means… more valid?

It’s textbook insecurity disguised as bravado. “If I show it, maybe people will see me as confident or powerful.”

But here’s the truth: That’s not confidence. That’s overcompensation.

Naturism asks us to show up just as we are. Fully, freely, unapologetically…. not part by part!

It’s not about hiding or shrinking away from your body. But it’s also not about staking your entire identity on one body part.

Your genitals don’t make you more or less of a man.

They don’t make you more respectable, more attractive, more mature, more dominant, more sensitive, more grounded, more intelligent… or more safe.

You… as a whole, complex, actual person, do.

This belief that your penis is somehow tied to your identity? It’s a root cause of why some men in naturist spaces struggle to behave respectfully. If you’ve convinced yourself that this one body part defines your worth, no wonder you feel the need to show it off, obsess over it, compare it, or feel threatened by the natural differences of others.

But naturism isn’t here to feed that insecurity. Naturism invites you to let all of that go. To step away from ego. To stop performing masculinity and simply be human.

To understand, deeply, that being a good person, a safe presence, and a welcome member of the community has absolutely nothing to do with what’s dangling between your legs… and everything to do with how you show up in the world.

What Your Close-Up Genital Photos Say About You

With just one poorly thought-out close-up, you’ve managed to say more about yourself than a 500-page autobiography ever could. But in case you’re wondering exactly what message you’re sending to the community, let’s break it down:

  • “I Don’t Understand Naturism.” You might think you’re embracing body positivity, but in reality, you’re just loudly proving you have no idea what naturism is actually about. It’s not a genitals-first philosophy.
  • “I Think My Junk is the Main Attraction.” Spoiler alert: it’s not. Naturism is about the whole person, not an up-close peep show of your personal terrain. No one ever saw a zoomed-in crotch shot and thought, “Wow, what a deep and well-rounded person!”
  • “I Mistake Shock Value for Authenticity.” Taking an explicit close-up photo and calling it naturism is like throwing a bucket of glitter at a dumpster and calling it art. You’re not edgy. You’re just… wildly off-topic.
  • “I’m Desperate for Attention.” You could have expressed yourself with a thoughtful message, a friendly smile, or a meaningful interaction. But instead, you went straight for the one thing you thought would get a reaction. And you’re right. It does. But not the one you hoped for.
  • “I’m Confusing Exhibitionism with Confidence.” There’s a fine line between being comfortable in your own skin and just being unable to keep it to yourself. Guess which side you’re on?
  • “I Don’t Respect Community Spaces.” Naturism is about creating a safe, respectful environment where everyone can feel comfortable. Your unsolicited anatomy shots are the digital equivalent of wandering into a naked yoga class and yelling, “Look at me!”

Why It Damages Our Community

Every time you post that kind of photo, you reinforce the stereotype naturists have been battling for decades: That naturism is just a thin cover for exhibitionism.

You make it harder for genuine naturists to be taken seriously.

You make it harder for women, families, and anyone who simply wants to feel safe and respected to enter naturist spaces, online or offline.

Let’s be blunt: There isn’t a single true naturist who appreciates these kinds of images being passed off as “representing naturism.” Not one. Zero. Zilch.

If someone claims they do, here are your two options:

1. They’re not actually a naturist.

2. They completely misunderstand what naturism even is.

Sure, you’ll always find a few people who like your photos. But let’s be honest. Who are they, really? People looking for adult content. Exhibitionists. Folks who think “nudity” automatically means “sex.”

In other words… exactly the crowd and mindset that naturism works so hard to push against.

How to Share Honestly and Respectfully Without Revealing Your Identity

Let’s give credit where it’s due: Not everyone posting nude images online is trying to show off.

Some men genuinely want to participate in naturism, express comfort in their skin, and share their journey, without revealing their face. They also want to feel part of the community. And many do this beautifully, posting thoughtful, respectful images that highlight naturism, not just nudity or genitalia.

But for others, often without realizing it, they fall into a common trap: Posting close-ups of their genitals as a stand-in for authenticity.

And then they wonder why they keep getting blocked.

Here’s the truth: You absolutely can be anonymous, nude, and respectful. It just takes a little creativity, and an understanding that your genitals don’t need to appear in every photo… or ever be the closest thing to the camera lens.

And remember: You never have to post a photo at all. That’s always your choice. But if you do want to share, here are some ways to keep your photos respectful, honest, and fully in line with naturist values:

Nudity Is About Presence, Not Proof: You don’t need to “prove” you’re nude by zooming in on your penis. A relaxed, unposed full-body photo, especially in a natural setting, says far more about genuine naturism than any close-up ever could. Presence is about how you live, not what you’re showing.

Use Nature (and Objects) as Visual Privacy Tools: Driftwood. Tree trunks. Rocks. Furniture. Towels. Water. All of these can be used to naturally obscure your identity, or your genitals, without hiding your nudity. These thoughtful touches don’t make your photo “less naturist.” They make it more creative, human, and interesting.

Genitals Don’t Belong in Every Photo: Ask yourself: Would I frame this photo the same way if I were clothed? If the entire shot revolves around your genitals, it’s probably not about naturism anymore. Let them be incidental, not the centerpiece.

Tripods Are Your Best Friend: Want better, more respectful naturist photos? Simple: Set up a tripod, step into the scene, and live in the photo instead of posing for it. Use a timer or remote, and capture real moments. Walking through the woods, relaxing on a deck, reading, swimming, gardening. Suddenly, your image becomes a story, not just a pose.

Practice Creative Anonymity: You don’t have to harshly crop your head or pixelate your face. Instead, try shadowed angles, backlit silhouettes at sunrise or sunset, motion blur, or partial back or side views. These kinds of photos often feel more personal, artistic, and respectful while still protecting your privacy.

Lead With Meaning, Not Anatomy: Pair your photo with a caption that shares why you’re posting it. Talk about body acceptance, aging, freedom, personal growth, or simply the joy of being outdoors. Your words will always say more about your naturist values than your anatomy ever could.

Naturism isn’t about exposure. It’s about expression.

And respectful self-expression doesn’t require you to sacrifice your privacy, or your dignity.

It simply asks you to be present, be mindful, and share from a place of sincerity, not ego.

A Final Bit of Advice

Look, if you really can’t resist taking close-up photos of your private parts, that’s your business.

But let’s be clear… don’t pretend it has anything to do with naturism. Label it accurately. Share it in the right spaces. And please… leave naturism to those who actually understand and respect it.

Because no, sir, your erection is not some bold symbol of body freedom. It’s just you confusing exhibitionism with naturism. Again.

Now, before the inevitable “But Why Didn’t You Call Out Women Too?” crowd starts chiming in…

Oh, sweet summer child, we did.

Scroll back up. We absolutely referenced vulvas zoomed in so tight we could predict their future. And buttholes with enough detail to carbon date last night’s lasagna.

We spared no one.

Let’s be honest here: If your genitals are making direct, unblinking eye contact with the camera lens, it doesn’t matter what’s between your legs… you’re missing the entire point.

But truthfully? Women rarely post these kinds of photos under the banner of “nudism” unless, let’s be real, there’s a link in the bio and a subscription price.

And hey, we get it. Hustle culture is alive and well. But let’s not confuse capitalism with naturism. One is about self-acceptance. The other is about “Click here to see more.”

Some men, though? They seem to believe their penis is a sacred symbol of freedom that simply must be shared with the world… multiple times. From every angle. In every lighting condition. Daily.

And honestly? You’re making all of us look bad.

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  2. I like this article100%. The photos of genitalia would, in my mind just be rated as R18 ” pornographic” and therefore have no place in this environment. Full stop. END OF.!!

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  3. I think any naturist photo should show off your surroundings just as much whether it’s indoors or outdoors.That way you give the viewer the sense of enjoyment you feel at that particular time. Any genital shot on its own is just mild porn.

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  5. well said. I think there are a lot of men that just don’t get it. Glad for your guidance and perspective.

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  7. Well done!

    I am in the process of writing a document on Nudism, in which I have a chapter dedicated to photography in which I write:

    “It is worth noting that some “nudist” pictures are, in my opinion, detrimental to attracting people to our chosen way of life. Photos that focus on the “privates” do more harm than good. Such photos can further the impression that nudism is primarily about sex.

    Worse still, I find, are nude pictures on social media sites where the face, tattoos or other distinguishing features are blurred, blacked out, or covered with emojis, in order to hide the identity of the subject while focusing on their “privates”. This gives the impression that the subject of the photo actually believes that nudity is something to be ashamed of!

    Why anyone would want to upload such a picture to social media confounds me – unless they do so to satisfy a penchant for exhibitionism! If you don’t want to be recognised as a nudist, don’t have a picture of your naked self taken! Certainly, don’t put it on the Web! Why would you??

    In my opinion, the photos which best suit nudism, are those that would still be interesting should the human element of the picture be clothed! In other words, that the nudity is the support act for the photo – for example, being naked in the midst of beautiful scenery – or taking part in an interesting activity, nude.

    I believe that we should use photography (and video) to promote the normality of nudism. After all, we are just like all other human beings – we merely prefer to do everyday, normal stuff, without the encumbrance of clothing.”

    Your article has added to that, wonderfully – Cheers,

    Kevin

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  8. Brilliant!

    Good example of how to take photos which promotes the naturist lifestyle can be seen in Naked Wanderings. Tateful and depicting the relevant topic, which is traveling destinations.

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  9. That was a very thoughtful and tasteful article addressing an all too often misunderstood reality. here’s to tasteful interesting pictures documenting an sharing the joys of naturism. Oh and your photos meet the standards you laid out and are a joy to see.

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  10. breaking out into more free forms of thinking outside of cultural influences. It occurred to me that even in the Bible it talks of how God created our bodies to be good and beautiful and the culture I had grew up in was more counter to the truth than I ever realized. Now that I am in my 40’s I have finally started taking on a naturist mindframe in an actual sense, where up until now it was just in my head but never expressed. I have worked really hard and still struggle with hate and shame towards my body and so to be honest, articles like this can be triggering to me. I still totally agree that the people who are clearly not true naturists need to stop because they are totally ruining everything the rest of us are working towards. But I also want you to have some other perspective from the male side (although probably a non-typical). People like me just want to be accepted. I rarely ever get an erection and definitely don’t get them in public settings (so far at least) , but if it happened I would hope that I wouldn’t have to rush off into the water or go grab a towel or something. For me it’s not even a sexual thing as I have some genetic stuff I have learned to deal with.

    But I think in general we should try to normalize the erections that happen to those who are trying to be appropriate and not shame them and add to the negative stigma of shame that I feel still lingers around, but maybe I am just completely off base here. Appreciate all you do with this blog. Keep it going. Thanks for putting great thoughts to actual words. It definitely helps grow understanding. I have been sharing these with my wife who is fairly supportive of me but hasn’t jumped on the train yet.

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    1. Thank you so much for sharing this and for doing it with honesty and respect. We really appreciate when people open up about their own struggles, because you’re right… shame around bodies runs deep, and naturism should be a space for healing that.

      We want to be really clear though: This article wasn’t about body shame or accidental physical responses. It was about behavior. Specifically, the deliberate choice to sexualize others or act inappropriately toward them.

      That said, you’ve touched on something important here. Naturism is absolutely about accepting your body including the awkward, uncontrollable parts sometimes. But naturism is also about respecting how your body can affect the comfort and safety of others.

      You’re not the only person in the space. Some people may have experienced other forms of trauma themselves. Others may have concerns about the presence of children in naturist settings. Whether we like it or not, certain things, like visible erections, can trigger assumptions about intent, even if it’s unintentional.

      That’s why what really matters here is how you handle it. Discreetly covering up or going into the water isn’t about shame. It’s about showing respect for others around you. It’s saying, “I understand this might make others uncomfortable, and I care enough to be thoughtful about that.”

      We fully agree that naturism shouldn’t add more shame. But we also believe it works best when everyone approaches it with mutual respect, not just personal comfort.

      And honestly, we really appreciate your willingness to reflect on this and we’re glad these conversations are something you’re sharing openly with your wife, too. That’s how naturism grows in the healthiest way.

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  11. Great post.

    I suspect many of us who go through the daily routine of “scroll and block, scroll and block…” are applauding wildly right now. BRAVO.

    A couple thoughts:

    I wonder if the people who most need to read this will make it past the first paragraph?

    And I wonder if the people who disdain ANY form of nudity simply lump genitalia close-ups and “altruistic naturist pics” all into the same heap.

    (Actually – I don’t wonder. I know they do!)

    I’ll bookmark this post to see if future commenters push back on the premise with an “I gotta be me” where by me, they mean, “penis.” But again… those folks may have clicked on through after the first sentence.

    Keep up the good fight! 🙂

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    1. I am sure there will be some. So far only 1 block on Bluesky from it. 😃. I have to admit, across social media, comments have been very positive with many thanking for the information for themselves specifically. If we convince 1… it’s a win!

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      1. Indeed it is! As Lance Armstrong used to say about winning the Tour de France – “Small increments matter!” (Thinking he wasn’t referring to doping when he said that. LOL)

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  12. I totally recognise the situation. Those photos of males having a coffee or beer and showing the obligatory penis in the picture, made me leave MeWe. Freud would have called these males genitally fixated and in a phase of regression.
    You only write about males, as if there are no photos of females with a focus on the genitals or proving explicitly that they are butt naked. These are mainly photos of the kind of the ‘click here to see more’ or ‘join my patreon or onlyfans account’. These might be a minority, but are also giving a wrong impression of naturism.
    What are we to think of the photographers on BlueSky with lots of photos of only naked women, who use hashtags like #naturist, #nudist, but also #breasts, #nipples, #shaven, #hairy…?

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    1. I did mention them but you are correct. They are “pay to see more” accounts. We talk about them in many articles. It is very rare to actually see any woman naturist without a “pay to see more” account do this. But men do it constantly. Which is why this was specifically about them.

      I’m not sure what you are specifically asking about photographers. They are in business to sell their art. They create what society wants.

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      1. Those photographers shouldn’t label these photos naturist, but use the hashtag erotic.

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        1. I would agree. I did a test of our Artistic Nude Photos feed on Bluesky and search for those hashtags. There are not used very often. I found two photographers. Both were actually naturist images. I am sure there are some who use the terms incorrect.

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  13. I agree fully, I admit I WAS one of those seeking validation. However your newsletter has opened my eyes. I have hated clothes as long as I can remember. You actually taught me why, thank you.

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  14. Wow! I know we’ve had our moments, Kevin, but I have to say this is one of your most important posts I’ve read, in my opinion! You’ve approached a very serious topic with a touch of humour that adds to the message all the more. Very well written.

    You know, there seems to be something in the male psyche that links self worth to the penis. And that transcends cultures around the world – not just old white blokes on naturist sites. For example, our Maori language, along with other Polynesian languages, has the word “ure” meaning “penis”. But it’s also used for courage, bravery, manliness, male line of descent, male status and dominance, etc.

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    1. Lol! It’s ok to have different opinions. We are on opposite sides of the world and see some things differently. Respect is key. And thanks for the k8nd words!

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  15. There was a formatting thing that wordpress changed. “Never forget you towel” was meant to be it’s own line. ;D

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  16. Yet another great post. And those bits of humor help to put a light touch to sometimes touchy subjects. 🙂

    Sure. In a naturist setting, you do see people. It’s not like everyone walks around staring at the clouds. For naturists, it’s just not as big a deal. It’s like seeing a face. In fact, once you get to know someone, you can actually identify them without seeing their faces. I’ve even found that blushing in the clavicle area can actually enhance one’s facial expression and mood. (Wait. You can talk with you collar bones?)As for erections, Douglas Adams was onto something when “The Hitch-hiker’s Guide to the Galaxy” . . .

    Never forget your towel.Among it’s many other uses, it can be quickly wrapped around to conceal an unexpected erection. I’ve never seen one in a naturist setting.On an artistic note, sometimes less is more. You mentioned that genitals don’t have to be the star of the show. You’ll end up with a more interesting shot if you make it less right-in-your-face, anyway. Honestly, if they’re going to be in the shot at all (they don’t have to be), it’s best you just be casual with them, as if they were no more spectacular than eyes, ears, etc.. Like I said right in the beginning, people do see them. You don’t need the flashing neon arrows to point people’s attention to something they might have missed.

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  17. Thank you for another well-written, excellent post! This should be required reading for all men who say they want to involved in naturism. It will help weed out those who believe that nudism and immoratl sexual behavior are inseparably linked. Thank you for acknowledging the desire to look at another person’s nude body: (Quote) “And yes, let’s be honest… we’re all human. In naturist spaces, people will look. It’s basic human curiosity. You notice. You move on. No one’s pulling out a magnifying glass here. It’s a glance, not a quest for hidden treasure.” Ninety-nine percent of all men will look at another man’s penis; the vast majoristy of them have only nautral curiosity as their motive. A man truly interested in being nude with other nude people will soon be so involved in the camaraderie and relaxation that he will forget he is nude; that’s been my experience.

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    1. Sorry! When I said, “Ninety-nine percent of all men will look at another man’s penis…” I forgot to include the rest. It’s something I heard on another site.
      Ninety-nine percent of all men will look at another man’s penis, when they have the chance. The other 1% are liars.

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  18. Thank you for another well-written, excellent post! This should be required reading for all men who say they want to involved in naturism. It will help weed out those who believe that nudism and immoratl sexual behavior are inseparably linked.

    Thank you for acknowledging the desire to look at another person’s nude body:
    (Quote) “And yes, let’s be honest… we’re all human. In naturist spaces, people will look. It’s basic human curiosity. You notice. You move on. No one’s pulling out a magnifying glass here. It’s a glance, not a quest for hidden treasure.” Ninety-nine percent of all men will look at another man’s penis; the vast majoristy of them have only nautral curiosity as their motive. A man truly interested in being nude with other nude people will soon be so involved in the camaraderie and relaxation that he will forget he is nude; that’s been my experience.

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  19. Wonderful article, and I could not agree more. I can wholeheartedly recommend the advice about using some sort of tripod for your naturist photography. I have gotten some terrific shots at various naturist resorts using one (both with my Nikon Z50 and with my cellphone cameras). I can be completely in the shot, just me and whatever natural setting I’m in, without having to hold anything in my hands. Using a tripod also makes it much easier to be respectful of others’ privacy and the rules of the resort.

    Thanks again for an outstanding article!

    Terrance

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  20. I couldn’t have said it better. I’ve left more than one naturist site because of that exact reason. Kudos

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  21. This article combines education and examples, humor and help. This article is not just for newbies but for anyone who posts under the guise of naturism.

    We have all seen the ubiquitous “male nude with a coffee cup” picture. The penis somehow ends up as the focus of the picture.

    Like Kevin and Corin, I live a naturist philosophy and it is my life and work to educate people on what wholesome naturism is…and isn’t. I post pictures with a narrative and am always conscious of how the picture is framed so it does not get misconstrued. My pictures are intended to educate, especially with a focus on women, so they can understand the body positivity it brings as well as making peace with your body and loving the skin you are in. Without pictures, it doesn’t show the wholesomeness of what naturism truly is.

    This article is well-written and I will be sharing this so others can benefit from this great blog.

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  22. I don’t post many pictures of myself, and have never taken one with an errection, at my age it wouldn’t last long enough to find my phone. I agree wholeheartedly with you about all of it. Personally I don’t like the faceless pictures, with or without an emoji covering them up.

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  23. I absolutely LOVE this article. You nailed it. Thanks for your work in advancing Naturism.

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  24. Thank you for another insightful and wise post. When I explore naturist/nudist blogs, my block button gets a real workout. I’m not a urologist or gynecologist. Your junk isn’t a treat and I’m not especially interested in seeing it.

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  25. A very good Blog.

    I totally aggree, we are more than our genitals, but our genitals are a part of us and we shall be not hiding them.

    But as always, it is a thin line between genital fixation and being proud of having no problem, that they are part of your pic.

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  26. It’s a very good story, I myself don’t feel the need to show my genitals on photo and certainly not to publish on some platform on the internet.
    First of all, the resistance to publish nude photos was my job as a postman.
    But if you still want to publish photos, you have explained well how it should be done, thank you.

    Harry

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  28. Thank you for this very important message, Kevin. Unfortunately with growing use of social media, this is also a very increasing issue. We are plagued with people pretending to be nudists but are in fact exhibitionists . We spend countless hours disconnecting from and blocking them. We are not sure how to overcome this but your posts of genuine nudism and this one, very much help. We will share in BlueSky and Twitter. Jan&Gary 👍❤️

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  29. Absolutely true! I am so sick of friends requests from people with no faces that claim to be naturists.

    I will send them all this post and hope they get the hint…

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    1. Lots of people won’t show faces for various personal reasons. That’s OK. It’s when they walk into your space genitals first… that’s a problem that needs to be fixed.

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  30. Excellent post and something that has been on my mind for ages. I want to try and enjoy some of these social spaces but seeing the constant feed of these types of photos is just frustrating because it can so easily turn the curious away. I want to hope that many are just unaware and will see this and will understand and change their behavior because of it.

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  31. I read the whole blog,it’s was amazing, eye opener. People should read your blogs .. absolutely the nudist like us where we make mistakes should read your blogs thank you for the guidance. Love from India

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  32. You made me smile several times when reading this post. Not because the content is particularly funny, but because you always find ways to surprise me with creative (and funny) phrasing. So thanks for that!

    A more serious and on-topic thought I want to add is that there also is a self-reinforcing process here. When I first joined and started to participate in online nudist communities, I noticed that everyone was posting pictures of themselves. Granted, not the close-ups that this blog focuses (hah!) on, but definitely pictures where the (always male) subject made sure that their dangly bits were on full display. This was my first time in such a place. Everyone did it. So yeah, I have done it too. What I saw convinced me that this was needed to be an accepted member of that community. That I had to prove that I dared to show myself in order to be accepted as a true nudist.

    I know better now. I still post selfies. But not very often. And I no longer make sure that my penis is visible.

    However, I also do not explicitly try to hide it. As such, I do not necessarily agree with your suggestion to use nature or objects to hide genitals from view. If a tree branch happens to be in front of my junk, then that’s fine. But I see no reason to deliberately position myself or that branch that way. I am, after all, a nudist. I see no reason to go out of my way to hide my penis from view … just as I do not go out of my way to hide my left arm or my nose from view.

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    1. Thanks for your comments. Yes, for many new to naturism and photos, its a learning experience and why we wanted to give suggestions.

      In regards to your last paragraph, there are also those who wish to show they are nude without actually showing they are nude (no genitals). These images can be more social media friendly when needed. Not everyone wants to be on full display. It’s just another suggestion.

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  33. well said pity it needs to be said but to represent our naturism correctly to non naturists etc we need, collectively, to act in accordance with what you have said so well and veto any actions etc to the contrary thank you

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