We Told Our Friends We’re Naturists. The Real Ones Stayed.

Let’s talk about something many naturists wrestle with but don’t often say out loud:

“How do you go about telling friends you are a naturist or nudist?”

We get it. Relationships matter. Friendships matter. You don’t want to rock the boat by casually dropping “Hey, by the way, we spend our weekends gloriously naked with other people who also aren’t wearing pants.”

But let’s be honest. Being a naturist isn’t something you should have to hide. It’s not shameful. It’s not immoral. And if your friends really care about you, not just the clothed, polite, filter-approved version of you, they’ll respect the things that bring you joy, peace, and comfort. Even if that thing happens to involve a hammock and relaxing in the raw!

Here’s how to tell your friends you’re a naturist without making it weird, earning their respect without a PowerPoint presentation, and maybe, just maybe, inviting them to dip a toe into your world.

Start With Confidence… Not “Confession”

This isn’t some deep, dark secret. You’re not revealing you have a tail or a storage locker full of taxidermy raccoons. You’re just saying you feel better without clothes. Honestly, who doesn’t?

When you talk about naturism or nudism, own it. Don’t whisper it like you’ve joined a nudist mafia.

Try something simple, like: “Hey, I’ve been getting into naturism lately. It’s actually been really freeing. Not just physically, but mentally. I know it’s not for everyone, but I wanted to share because it’s been such a positive thing for me (us).”

Notice we didn’t say, “So don’t judge me!” Because guess what? When you expect judgment, people lean into it. When you’re cool and relaxed about it, it becomes just another “oh cool!” moment in a friendship.

Brace for Weird Questions and Answer Them with Humor

When we first told friends, we got everything from “Wait… you mean, like, full naked?” to “Isn’t that kind of… sexy?” to “Do you sit on things?” (Yes, we do. On towels. Like civilized humans.)

People will ask awkward things. Don’t take offense to it… take the lead. Laugh. Explain. Educate gently.

• “No, it’s not a sex thing. Think beach day, not bachelor party.”

• “Yes, we’re naked. No, it’s not awkward. Actually, the only awkward part is explaining it to people who’ve never tried it.”

• “And yes, we bring a towel. Always. Naturist 101.”

You may even get some questions that make you laugh or shake your head!

• “Wait… so like, you’re naked naked? Or just mostly naked?” No, Karen! We leave our socks on for modesty!

• “Do you shake hands with people? Like… normal handshakes? Or is it more of a fist bump situation?” Just hands. We don’t high-five with any other body parts.

• “What if someone drops a fork?” They pick it up. With their hand. And we all pretend it didn’t happen. Like adults.

Your attitude sets the tone. If you’re relaxed, they’ll relax. If you treat it humorously, they may laugh with you. If you’re uptight, they’ll think you’re in a weird cult that bans clothing.

Tell Them Why It Matters To You

Friends respect WHY you do something more than WHAT you do. Don’t just say, “We like being naked.” Say what it’s done for you.

“We used to feel weird about our bodies. Naturism helped us ditch that. It’s honestly made us more confident, closer as a couple, and a lot less stressed.”

“It’s surprisingly freeing to realize nobody’s judging you for how you look because everyone’s too busy feeling liberated themselves.”

When your friends hear it’s helped you live better, not just get a better tan, they’re much more likely to say, “Okay… that actually sounds kind of amazing.”

Don’t Be a Nude Evangelist

We love naturism. We talk about it a lot. (Exhibit A: this entire website.) But we never force it on anyone.

We get it… you’ve discovered something amazing too. Naturism has changed your relationship with your body, brought you peace, deepened your connection with yourself or as a couple, and now you’re wondering why everyone doesn’t just throw their clothes off and join you in the sunshine.

But hold your towel. Because here’s the truth: The fastest way to make someone defensive is to act like you’re here to convert them.

You don’t need to “win” the conversation. You don’t need to have statistics on hand. And you definitely don’t need to ask, “Have you accepted body acceptance into your life today?”

We’ve seen it happen. People get excited, and suddenly naturism becomes their personal mission. But when you push too hard, it sounds less like an invitation and more like judgment.

• “You’d probably feel better if you just got naked.”
• “You don’t love your body unless you’re willing to be nude.”
• “Clothing is a social prison!”

Slow down, Socrates.

Even if you’re right (and hey, we kinda think you are), people need room to come to things on their own. The more you defend it, the more it can sound like you’re trying to justify something shameful. And the more defensive you get when questioned, the more “culty” it feels to outsiders.

Instead, lead with calm confidence. Share your experience, not a manifesto. “For us, it’s been a huge positive. It helped us feel more comfortable in our skin and brought us closer together. But everyone’s got their own pace and it’s not for everyone.” That kind of answer is a disarming superpower. It says: I know who I am. I respect who you are. I’m just letting you in on something meaningful to me.

And surprisingly often, that’s the moment people lean in and go, “Okay… I mean… I couldn’t do it, but I admire that.” That’s respect. That’s curiosity. And that’s far more powerful than a sermon on the sacred benefits of ditching your underwear.

Some Friends Might Not Get It… And That’s Okay

Here’s the hard part no one really prepares you for:

Not everyone will understand. And some people may walk away.You might get silence after you share. You might get jokes that don’t feel funny. You might even get a lecture. And yes, it might hurt. Especially if you’ve trusted someone with a part of your life that feels so personal, honest, and good.

You have to be emotionally prepared for that.

We’re not saying expect the worst. Most friends will surprise you in the right way. But every so often, someone close to you will make it clear: they can’t handle it. Maybe they’re projecting their own hang-ups. Maybe they’ve bought too deeply into shame. Maybe they’ve been looking for a reason to judge you. Whatever the reason, if it goes south, you have to let them walk away.

Because clinging to people who only accept the version of you that stays silent, hides your joy, or apologizes for your lifestyle… that’s not friendship. That’s performance.

“But what if I lose them?”

You might. But if your lifestyle was enough to lose them, then their version of you was never whole to begin with. And here’s the paradox: by being brave enough to be fully yourself, you might lose a few. But you’ll gain something bigger. Self-respect. Freedom. Space for better friendships.

You’ll start to notice who really sees you. Not just for the clothes you wear (or don’t), but for your values, your honesty, and your heart.

We’ve lived this. We’ve watched some people fade away. And it stings at first. But over time, we’ve realized, we didn’t lose anything. We made room for the right people. And we have made some amazing new friends who respect us for our naturist life.

The Real Ones Will Stay

We’ve found that when you tell your friends about naturism, the ones who stay become even closer. You’ve let them into your life in a real, raw (literally) way. There’s no pretense. No layers. No Spanx. Just truth.

And if they’re truly your friends, they’ll see the beauty in that. Even if they prefer to stay dressed and you are never nude socially together.

New Friends Will Find You And Old Ones Might Come Around

Let’s end on the good part. Because after you’ve had that hard conversation, after the awkward silence or the surprise support, after a few friendships shifts… something kind of beautiful starts to happen. New friends start to show up.

We’re not talking about hundreds of instant naked buddies (that’s not how real naturism works). But once you’re open and unashamed, you begin to attract people who get you. People who value honesty over appearances. People who don’t flinch when you say, “Yeah, we’re naturists,” and who maybe even say, “Really? Tell me more.”

You’ll find naturist friends online, at events, on hikes, on beaches, in backyards. And some of them will become closer than the people who knew you for decades because they’re meeting the real you, not the edited version.

And here’s the twist: Some of those old friends? They might come around, too. Those people who were weirded out at first may circle back months later and say things like: “I was kind of judgmental, but I’ve thought about what you said… and you really seem happier.” Or maybe: “Okay, I still don’t get it… but I respect you.”

And that’s all we’re asking for. Not conversion. Not naked dinner parties (unless they want to host, in which case we’ll bring a salad and a towel). Just respect.

Because that’s what friendship is built on.

Final Thought: Be Brave. Be Honest. Be You.

Telling your friends you’re a naturist isn’t about nudity. It’s about authenticity. It’s about saying, “This is who I am. This is something that brings me peace, joy, and connection.”

Some people will get it. Some won’t. But either way, you’ll know you were true to yourself. And that’s the beginning of a more honest, more open life.

We’ve been through this ourselves. It wasn’t always easy, and we definitely stumbled through a few awkward conversations. But we’ve learned that the people who matter most won’t walk away just because you’re walking barefoot and clothing-free.

Being honest about who we are opened doors to deeper friendships, real conversations, and a stronger sense of self. We hope this gives you the courage to share your truth too. Because no one should have to hide the best, most freeing parts of their life.

And when the right people stay? Or the new ones show up?

That’s when it all feels worth it.

Stay true. Stay kind. Stay bare.

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